Why do I find it strange when a guy actually texts me? Normally I don’t hand out my number to a guy at a bar because I don’t expect anything to happen after that night, but this kid is not backing down. Granted our conversations are far from engaging, and borderline boring, but this whole situation is quite different. But the question is- Is this a good different or bad different? I guess we’ll have to wait and see.
xx
I should be relieved, but I’m not going to lie- I kinda miss the attention. Is that incredibly vain of me? Am I being totally hypocritical? Don’t even attempt to answer those questions.
I apologize for the confusion this post may cause, I haven’t been able to blog about EVERYTHING without damaging some of my relationships. Gotta keep part of my life a mystery.
xx
Well labor day weekend was full of sin and PLDs. Drinking a bottle of poor life decisions will bite you in the ass…or the neck I guess. As most of you know my standards seem to be nonexistent, and down the shore my not so proud moments seem to be highlighted. Leave it to me to have some stories for the morning after. But hey, it was the last weekend of summer and you know what? Sorry I’m not sorry.
I’ll look for my dignity next time I’m at the beach, and I’ll make sure to avoid my high school gym teacher next time I’m at the bar because he was judging me all night. I probably would have judged me too. I’m going to have to resist the “chin ups” and trips to the beach for a while- I need to spread my irresponsible wild antics out. I hope everyone’s labor day was filled with adventures!
Okay so the lack of excitement in my life is to blame for my lack of posts. Rather than bore you with my redundant day to day activities, which ultimately come down to working at the bank, eating and sleeping I decided to spare you the misery and just avoid blogging. Well, I’m back now- and hopefully for good. Though the excitement in my life hasn’t increased, I am determined to make a constant effort in keeping you all entertained.
So, remember Mr. Fourth Chance? The kid that I have yet to give a fourth chance to is back. I saw him two weeks ago at a bar, and the 8th grade bitch inside of me ignored him. Our eyes met and I turned my head away. Now, you would think that this pathetic behavior would cause FC to take a hint. He did not call/text/Facebook me for two weeks (longest run ever), but of course that did not last.
Today I received a text from him simply stating “Just got back from Vegas, it was so much fun.” Gee, thanks for the heads up! That text followed up with a few more updates on his life and one final one asking to meet up in an hour to hang out. I guess he hasn’t been reading my blog? After talking to some of my girlfriends, most of them agreed on my theory of turning him down when he asks to hang out the day of rather than make plans a day or two in advance. When will guys learn? I know I am being a little ridiculous, but I have to standby this little rule of mine.
I’m sure there will be some more updates in the near future, but for now that’s all folks. Catch ya on the flip side. (I’ve always wanted to say that)
xx
Dear Fourth Chance,
Grow up. I’m sorry I never called you back. I’m sorry I’m never available to hang out when you text or call me the day of. If you want to see me have some chivalry and make plans. Do not call me the same day and ask to meet in an hour, because I will most likely have plans or lie and say I have plans. Also, grow a pair and don’t complain to a mutual “friend” that I never got back to you regarding a night out and then have her approach me. Confront me, this isn’t high school. We’re young adults, and if you do want to go out then go about it another way because your approach isn’t working.
Sincerely,
Sorry I’m Not Sorry
